What I look for in a woman?

That is an interesting question, my partna in blog poised to me. SW asked me, point blank,”I wanna know what strikes a man like you from a woman. What makes you say-- Oh damn... That one.” Well shit, I guess I have to let you, the potential world in on my hunting eyes.[1]

Looks:

            I’ve dated models before. Let me tell you, the amount of drama that come with dating them is not worth the time of me going after that. I can have a jealous streak. However, why get upset at the dude. If Will Smith got mad at ever dude that was trying to holla at Jada Pickett, he be probably dead by now. Looks are not my number one thing. I don’t want a grenade or an ugly girl, but a consenstent 7 or 8 is just fine by me. Besides beauty fades. However, if she is a 7 or 8 with little makeup, then she has potential to me. Little makeup says “this girl has confidence in her natural self.” I like that.

Clothes

            Just like clothes make the man, it’s the same with women. While she doesn’t need to rock Gucci everything, she has to at least match. Also, please be covered. I like a little mystery. Nothing makes me think twice about approaching a girl, then when I can see her bra when she is in a natural position. That’s trashy.  In the work place/ casual settings, I am a sucker for a pencil skirt. At the bar/club, something tight but falls somewhere mid thigh, oh la la. In the spring summer time, I love spring dresses or a one piece dress. That get’s my attention every time.

Body shape

            My favorite part of a girl is legs. A little muscle tone thigh, nice calves, and a kept up pedicure. Good God, I can’t take my eyes off of you. Shaved legs, silky smooth to the touch, girl you better stop. Breast size is not a big deal. Prefer a tighter side tummy, but in shape is fine. Please, though, no man arms. I got a big enough set of guns for the both of us. The less hair the better as well.

Mind

            This is the biggest thing to me. If she can’t hold a conversation, you get the gas face. When I say conversation, I mean about something meaningful. I don’t watch “Jersey Shore”, my life doesn’t revolve around what happen on “The Game” or TFM.com. I’m talking about politics, sports, food, traveling, just variety. The more you can talk about, the more I will be willing to try watching “Jersey Shore” or “The Game” to include things that interest you. Also, I find myself attracted to people that have had some college in their life. Not saying she had to finish because stuff happens and I understand. I just can relate to that type of girl more.

This is just a start, but there is more probably. If you have any follow ups, hit the comment section, and I’ll try to respond. Untiil then…

“Either love me, or leave me alone”

E

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[1] Subject to change as time goes on.